life is like flower.. Enjoy each petal of it

life is like flower.. Enjoy each petal of it

Friday, June 5, 2020

Happiness

HAPPINESS - -- 
some people called it "Inner peace"  

Many times I used to think about what is Happiness? where it exists.
I get answered as its "within". 
But when I win any race or score high I feel HAPPY why ?? i know it will be for a moment or for some days.. but its happiness 

The moment I tie my happiness to anyone or anything or outcomes and experiences ur means I am giving power away.

Happiness exists within our own heart and soul and trusts me I didn't always believe that was the case because I've spent many days in my life feeling sad, upset and hopeless because of external factors and things that were ultimately out of my control.

But eventually, it dawned on me that no one or nothing can ever take away my power to be happy within my own soul and feel good about myself and the life I am creating.

so i learn to keep my power to be happy with me as it depended on me only, its no more with someone or something..and the best i have full right and control on myself. if something i am doing is making me sad, i can fix it quickly ..

Sometimes things go your way, sometimes they don't but that doesn't mean they should ever break you inside and take away your beauty, joy, and love for life and yourself.

I think the great secret to being happy within no matter what may be going on in your life is to learn the art of letting go and allowing things to be while having a deep sense of faith that all will be well and work out in your favor in the right time and in the right way.

Yes, we need to just have some patience.. patience is the only sweetest fruit which you don't get in the market but grow with time.
if something which is making you sad, and its not in control then the best option is to leave it like that and move forward but don't compromise on the cost of your happiness.

Happiness exists within your own soul and you are all and everything you will ever need to be, choose to feel your power, choose to live in your power, and most importantly choose to never give away your power to others, outcomes, or external factors.

Happiness is something you have to keep working for and searching for in your life.

Your brain isn't designed to make you happy, it's designed to protect you and keep you safe from danger and that's what it focuses on as its default setting.
you need to teach him that what is important at the end, what makes you happy not what makes others happy this doesn't mean that you start doing something which makes others sad.
just live life in such a way that when you close your eye in your alone time, when you are mirroring yourself . that time you don't have and guilt that why I have done this. I should have not done or said this. you should feel proud whenever you see your self whenever you recall your past.
  

That is why we have to work a little harder every day to focus our mind, body, and spirit on what is beautiful, what is positive, and what will make our souls happy.

I used to think that happiness was something that just magically enters our lives and in many cases, it does but not as frequently as you would hope for and that is why you've got to work on your own happiness daily to surround yourself with the things that make you feel joy in your heart.

Make happiness a priority and a goal in your life, too often I see people with goals that ultimately bring them no happiness or joy because they are so focused on money, accumulation, and achievement that they forget that all that is meaningless if you aren't happy within.

Happiness is something you have to work for and in many cases, you have to fight for to feel it in your heart and to experience in your life.

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Life, Love & Luck---


Is Duniya main kayi tarha ke log rehte hai, har aadmi ka ek sapna hota hai, jise who hamesha pura hote hue dekhna chahta hai. Haan…. Kisi ke pure hote bhi hai aur kisi ke nahi bhi hote.

  • “Life”… matlab “zindagi” bahot si zindagi aisi hoti hai jo khud apne liye jeeti hai, aur bahot si zindagi aisi hoti hai jo apne liye to sochta nahi par dusro ke liye hi jeete hai, aur haan kayi zindagi aisi bhi hoti hai jo bina kisi matlab ke ya bina kisi makshad ke liye bhi bas jeeta hai….

  • “Love”… matlab “Pyar” Ek aisi cheez jiske bina is zindagi jeene ka koi matlab hi nahi hota,pyar ek ehsaas hai jise duniya main basne waali har zindagi mehsus karna chahti hai, usko paana chahti hai, aur ek sacchi huquekat bhi hai ki pyar ke bina is duniya main koi rishta kayam nahi hota….

  • Aur “Luck”….. Matlab “Naseeb” jo har zindagi is duniya main aate hi saath lekar aati hai, yeh sirf koi haathon ki lakeerein nahi hoti! Yeh ek bhagvaan ka diya hua var hai, jiske jeise karam weisa naseeb…..

Yeh duniya pehle ek cheez pe chalti thi,aur who hai vishvass, lekin ab vishvass ka koi mulya nahi raha, bas peisa hai to duniya hai, yeh ek niyam bann chuka hai is yug ka. Koi pani ka pyasa to koi peise ka pyasa ya phir koi kisi ke khoon ka pyasa, har aadmi kisi na kisi cheez ki kami mehsus karta hai aur use who har pal paa na chahta hai.

Is duniya ke logon ki bahot si kahaniya hoti hai, jeise har insan ki ek kahaani, weise hi meri bhi ek kahaani hai, main bhi isi duniya main basne waale logon ka ek hissa hoon, haan…. Mera bhi ek sapna tha, main bhi who hi chahte the jo is duniya main basne waala har insaan chahta hai…. Meri zindagi main bhi who sabkuch tha jise is duniya main har insaan paana chahta hai shiway ek cheez ke aur who hai “Pyar” ya phir shayad “Naseeb”.

Main khud nahi tay kar paa rahe the main kis ki kami main mehsus kar rahe hoon…. “Pyar” Ya “Naseeb”………

Weise yeh “Ehsaas” naam ki cheez hai bahot hi kamaal ki, sabko ko uski zindagi main kuch mile ya na mile par kisi na kisi tarha ka “Ehsaas” zarur milta hai. Ek yeh hi aisi cheez hai jo insaan ki zindagi main modd laata hai,
pyar ka ehsaas ho ya kisi aur tarha ka ehsaas ho,who apni is zindagi main ek baar to paata hi hai, jise who bhoola kar bhi kabhi nahi bhool paata hai….

Friday, October 24, 2008

khud se khud ki fight.. kon jeeta !!!

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It was My First Day in college.. I was really not intrastate in going college... because doing engineering is not my cup of tea..but still as I was going..there for pretty much frustrated...not misbehaving with all and trying to tease all but still I don't know y student of my call wanna make friend friendship with me..they use to ask my name.. about my marks ..and all the formal enquirer ..which they use to do with other..so days are going like the send form fist...initially i was not interested in the study ..and anything.... I just rudely behaving with all ... in short was totally frustrated..and feeling irritated with everyone... therefor easily getting angry.... i can't really forget my dream ..i wanna be Dr... I really had tried harder for Cpmt preparation but due to ..my papa's decision he is not allowing me to go out,..... and i really start feeling like a waste...

but then after some time while talking to my school friend Shubhi and Aarti ..i feel ..that i am wasting My precious life.. then i had decided to put my full effort to pursue BE....

i am with a new mod..with fun, energy and enthu...to do something..

therefor from 6 Oct i become to much naughty .....Bhut Masti Karna shuru kia..... mey as such Kaffee masti khore and sincere person hoo..mujhe time par Masti aur right time par work he acha lagta tha... so mey as usual fun mood mey thi ..in my bus.....

then i meet a girl ...call AN(short name) .... i found her very much alone in college and not satisfy with life..and from the face she was looking very upset ... then suddenly in some time she comes to me and introduces herself to me.... as usual, i was not interested in friendship with anyone there for I dont introduce my self...in right way..but i was interested in talking to her there for i start talking to her..on that day..i  made fun of all the collage folks i...then we use to sit in bus together but not in class..in class she use to sit with BB .... her 1st college friend..but after some time BB needs to go her home town ..so she was alone in class.. then she told me to sit with her .... as Me and AN start our friendship

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Wednesday, October 22, 2008

kon hoo mey.. ??

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There are two primary choices in life:
  • to accept conditions as they exist,
  • or accept the responsibility for changing them.
I am the one who take choice 2nd in each and everything whether it is professional life or personal. I just can't sit and see the mess happening.


But this attitude brought a lot of problems &  turning points in my as well my met life. 
people use to say I am extremist in nature but i feel its not wrong if i am, with this attitude whatever I do I give me 100% in that...
this gives me satisfaction .mey har chiz mey apna 100% de pati hoo..par it has a disadvantage as well as if i hate someone then i hate it with full force and feel.
I don't wanna see his or her face and break all relations with the one..but if i love or care someone then i love this much that no one can do with this emotion...
I will devote my life for that one..mey khud ko bhool kar sirf usse he ka care karte hoo.


I know it's pretty odd ..in the topic of about u ..but for me, this attitude makes a huge change in my life....as such I am not too much experience person ....but my this attitude has shown me different color in my life,,,..... 
so here start my story......